First of all... I don't know why RR would be against having your stream in multiple places as long as you have an RR link on your web page. That's just good advertisement for RR. And after all... RR is getting use of your $500 scanner, computer and Internet connection 24/7.
If you want to embed your stream on your own web page... stream to Shoutcast and RR. It's the best of both worlds.
If you're running Oddcast... just click on "add encoder" and set it up for a Shoutcast stream. Then run an instance of sc_serv and your stream will appear on Shoutcast... and RR. From there... you can get an IP to embed your stream on your own web site using something like Windows Media Player. Mine is
http://69.138.112.172:8090/ Yours will simply be your IP address plus the stream port.
Then you can get that warm fuzzy feeling twice as much! This is a "win win" situation?! :-)