"Ground", LOL!
Hi Jim,
Let me see if I can help. Having been in "radio"" since 1958 since I was 12 years old, having read numerous magazine and book articles on the subject (before Al "Bore" invented the Internet, LOL!) gives me some insight on this.
Now, I'll ask a couple of questions and answer them.
#1. Do you have any nearby trees taller than your antenna and not within say ten feet of the house or discone or pole?
If you do, don't worry, lightning would strike the tree or taller object before it would hit the antenna or pole. If you don't however, the deeper you could "plant" the ground rod (usually nowadays made from copper-coated steel) the better off you are. Copper is a good "ground" but it's hard to drive copper into the ground as it bends, even true copper rod.
#2. What type soil do you have at the ground rod? If you have a clay or loam (good soil) then there's no worry.
If you have sand, keep it wet, but not a puddle of water. To 'enhance' the soil dig a circular trench 4 inches wide and about 12" away from the ground rod about 12" deep. Fill the trench with rock salt ice cream salt, just below the grass roots and cover with soil. Wet the trench thoroughly before putting the soil back on top. About once a week, go out and water the trench just enough to get the soil good an wet. The salt will lower the soil resistance and make it more conductive to static runoff.
Where the coax comes into the house, you need to put a good lightning arrestor, a "Blitz Bug" comes to mind and the cartridges are replaceable. The downlead coax should screw into the arrestor. There should be a "drain-off" screw connection. Use as heavy a solid piece of copper wire, uninsulated, connect it to that screw, and take it to the ground rod connection. The leftover end has to have a matching connector, usually a PL-259 UHF plug that has 50 ohm coax that will attach to the BNC on the scanner. This should solve your concern and bring you many hours of enjoyment.
Now, having said that, there are "Acts of GOD" that DO happen, LOL! You can't always depend on Mother Nature not to do the 'unexpected'. :-( However, you can further reduce your chances of getting hit, by removing the coax from the back of the scanner, open the widow, when you hear lightning and thunder, and "throw that coax *snake* out the window, to the ground and away from the house. This is when you have further prepared. Now, you might consider having an inside groundplane for 2 meters to keep up with Skywarn and bad weather. The inside groundplane may also pickup the digitally-trunked and/or "encrypted" signals of your police and fire units.
Hope this helps,
Respectfully,
73,
Don/KA5LQJ
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