It really ticks me off when I see jerks charging for frequency info on Ebay when it is free on radioreference - where they get it, and it ticks me off more when someone selling you a radio at or near full retail wants to charge more than the actual labor cost to program it for you. It should only take them a few minutes, so I can see them charging $10. Or - considering they are making big bucks, how about throwing that in free.
Also - I see no reason at all to pay for software to program Uniden DMA scanners when Freescan does it for free. I'd suggest finding someone in the area with a Uniden scanner to help you,