I have come across people who think that people like me – who are into scanning - are weird, dorky, nerdy, lame, “need to get a life” etc you name it. I know VERY few people in my immediate circles who have even a passing interest in the hobby, so you can imagine it’s tough to talk to anyone about it. As far as my wife goes, she was pretty much indifferent to it until one day we were driving around the neighborhood and saw a SWAT team running into a house! At that point I told her “hey, I have an app for that!” and started listening in. She was pretty fascinated with it, but I think it’s ONLY because she had a somewhat “real” connection to what she heard – she saw something going on, and then she was able to listen in on it. However, I don’t think she’d have much interest in snapping a scanner on, sitting in a chair, and listening to things happening sight unseen miles away. I just don’t think it would hold her interest.
One of the things that she complained about is the use of codes. For example, a local FD dispatch comes on, says something like “XYZ Fire Department on the air with a signal x”. Next, you’ll here the chief say “I’m 22”, to which the dispatch will say “23 chief”. Then there may be a long silence in the chatter, and may end with “This is 950 signal 13”, to which you will hear “23 chief, all units signal 13 22:18”. For some strange reason, I find this interesting – but she finds it boring! I told her that most stuff you hear on FD around here will end up like that, she thinks it reduces the interest level on her part, and says "all you hear is 23 this, signal 9 that, signal 13". Oh well! Can't win 'em all!