As a long time mobile ham radio op and installer, I would feel bad if I didn't give you my thoughts here.
1. Ft-8900 is a great rig. Good choice.
2. Dunno much about this diplexer. Eham reviews would be best.
3. Have no idea what these are. I think NMO mounts from Comet? I would caution you against "pacific rim" NMO mounts. While called NMO mounts, they are actually cut every so slightly different than a true NMO mount (I assume to escape patent law). A real NMO antenna will not quite screw on properly and may not make proper connection. This is fairly well documented at
KØBG.COM
4 and 6 together. Getting a SO239 antenna and adapting it down to a NMO mount is not a great recipe for "robustness". SO239 connectors themselves are known for leaking and not making solid mechanical connections (weak). To take and put an adapter inline will only make your chances of water ingress and degraded performance worse.
5. Seems ok. Dunno if it is a true NMO mount or not.
What I do is look at what firetrucks, ambulances and police vehicles are using for their antennas. I look because I know the public safety industry will not tolerate poor equipment that will be prone to failure and need maintenance.
What you will see on top of 99% of those vehicles is Larsen antennas. Larsen is truly the bees knees of antennas, and they are generally cheaper than the "pacific rim" versions. Larsen is all that I use. MANY MANY online stories of 30 year old Larsens being on 10+ vehicles. Not the case for the Comet or Diamond mobile antennas.
Plus Larsen makes REAL NMO mounts which never rust and match real NMO antennas.
What I might suggest is a look at the Larsen NMO2/70 dual band antenna (ABOUT $55), and the NMO50 for 6 meters (ABOUT $35). Couple that with a few NMO kits from larsen or Laird and you would have a setup that would probably not need any maintenance for a decade or more.
Give Alan at
KØBG.COM an e-mail and ask his opinion. He is a very bright feller when it comes to mobile setups. Or just read through his GOBS of information. And look at the Eham reviews and really look at every component you want. Plus read the Mobile Install forums on Eham. LOTS of good info.
Those are my thoughts.
WM