The National Electrical Code requires your antenna ground connects back to the ground at the electrical entry point of your house and any additional ground rods you put in must be bonded to the electrical entry point ground with no less than 6ga copper wire. That is because your question has been brought up before and that is the answer to the problem. You can look up NEC Article 810 that deals with antenna and radio grounding.
The main reason for the National Electrical Code is human safety and I have experienced putting in a ground rod on my property that was on the far side of the house from my electrical entry point but very close to my neighbors. I could measure about 90 volts AC between that ground rod and the third wire ground in the electrical outlets in my radio room at the time. Turns out my house and my neighbors house were fed from different power poles with different distribution and grounding.
Its nearly impossible to protect an existing house from lightning damage due to the complexity and cost of the grounding. One of the biggest things that happens with radio setups using a ground rod that is not bonded to the house main ground is when lightning hits the antenna or power lines, the difference between the neutral and ground can go many thousands of volts apart and anything plugged into the wall will usually not survive.
When all grounds are bonded together and lightning hits, the neutral and ground and even the hot might all rise together but the difference between them can still only be 120V between neutral and hot and ground will be close in potential to neutral.[/QUOTE
Excellent answer! As a FF, I've been to many lightning strike calls going back to 1981 that left me scratching my head. I learned that lightning doesn't follow the NEC!
I once went to a call where lightning hit the yard, jumped to the buried "Invisible Dog Fence" wire, traveled roughly 200' feet back to the house, blew the coontroller apart, and then proceeded to go to the main breaker panel and throughout the house! Quite impressive!
Here's my question: Why can't we just ground our antenna lead in to the Ground at the A/C outlet and be done with it? Regardless of where the antenna ground is bonded to, it still has the potential to backfeed the line IN to the house, unless you're fortunate enough to have a lightning arrestor at your main breaker panel.