Didn't I say that I got my help in the forum, and via yahoo groups, and the internet, not via the DMR radio and the hams I was trying to speak to. The friendliest person, besides Hector was another new to DMR Ham, and he was doing what I was doing, trying to figure it out. I was way ahead of him, and gave him some help. We both had D-Star experience.
Hector may be the friendliest ham in existence, regardless of what modes he likes to operate. Those modes are actually CW, and he works in radio, so he has DMR too. I got help from hector via his QRZ page, and then through contact via email.
That is a nice comparison from the Ham clubs that installed my local D-Star and Fusion repeaters, and the individuals who pay for and install DMR systems. That's not where the differences start, or stop but it is a good one.
One of the local DMR systems is put up by a friend who said that he preferred D-Star, and only put up DMR because he had it, and did it for fun.