Wow! Some thoughts:
1. Why is he just a listener? With all that knowledge why is he not a ham? He was listening to and logging ham traffic.
2. He spent a great deal of time putting his station together and it looks pretty compulsive on his part. He then spends a great deal of time using it. I can't tell by watching the third video if that is a relative or friend's party celebrating an anniversary or such, or it is his anniversary. How does he have time to maintain a marriage if the latter is true.
3. What does this guy do for a living? He has spent more than almost every ham I've ever known or known about. Although he is not a ham, the phrase "has adequate money" (HAM) certainly applies to him.