Wow. Good, huge and right question. There are countless options. One of the big considerations is whether you have HOA or covenant restrictions, and this was my situation imposing significant option boundaries.
My first thought is that antenna selection should be a thoughtful process with a plan. A plan will serve you well. As you grow into the hobby, you should expect that the plan will change with as you earn experience and want to try new antennas.
Second thought is to think about lightning protection and grounding. ARRL book: Grounding and Bonding for Radio Amateur (Amazon) is an essential read, and it will help develop both antenna and station building plans. It's safety stuff here. Just do it. I preferred the paperback version. Better for pictures and diagrams.
This is one of my favorite grounding write-ups:
Third thought is take a look around your QTH. Can you do a tower or mast? Lotsa room in backyard? Roof mount? Where will you set-up your radio and what will it take to get your feedlines to the antenna. What can you do about antenna maintenance and will you be able to get at them seasonally (tough winters here).
Fourth thought is budget. Yep, there are costs to do antenna systems well, and it is not a bad thing to spend proportionally more on antenna systems. You can do them crazy complex or simple straight forward.
Fifth thought is join local amateur radio club and ask those with experience (elmers) a good approach having worked through the above.
Sixth thought is, fear not the antenna forums here, but also at eham.net and qrz.com. They are daily reads for me.
For starters, think a multiband (2M/70cm) for V/UHF. For HF, I was thinking fan dipole, but many options are out there and what antenna type is better (no such thing as best) will be subject of many and passionate opinions. One of my elmer's sage advice was that you could as same question to 20 guys and get 20 different answers.
Good Luck, Questions welcome. Email at qrz.com is good.
Chuck KC9QBY