... it does not show writing to sd card and it doesnt show up in the radio.... I can not control virtually.
I think it has to be two different things here. Whenever you switch off the scanner it will write to the SD card to save its current configuration, what the current channel are in the scan cycle, what fav lists you have enabled and so on, to be able to start up in the exact same state again.
The SD card save will also happen when you insert the USB cable, to be able to go back to the exact same scanner state after the programming are done.
When you program new data into the scanner it will continuously save data to the SD card but will say nothing about it on the display. If you power off the scanner it will probably not say that it is saving to SD card as it already have done that when you inserted the USB cable.
If you say that the new data you programmed do not exists in the scanner, then it's a problem but usually it would says something about SD card write error. If you only note that it doesn't say saving to SD card then that's how it normally works and your new data should be in the scanner.
Virtual control requires a special Uniden serial driver to work.
/Ubbe