Project25_MASTR
Millennial Graying OBT Guy
Man, I'm quite late to this one. @pboyd as you've discovered, flat pack duplexers desense (transmit leaks into receive) when they get more than 35W in them (even the higher end EMR and RFS duplexers suffer it). I typically run about 32W out of the duplexer in that application. While I don't like it, one of the standard practices for my employer is to utilize dual ANT450D antennas spaced roughly 5 feet apart (vertically) for a Capacity Plus system (they've even done that for 3 channel systems). I'm not a big fan of high gain antennas (I actually prefer 0 dBd most of the time) and as mentioned, you are dealing with radios with a 4W uplink...power doesn't really mean a ton.
One thing you can also look into (though its pricey) is something like the RFI MiniSystem Combiner (SP model which has a single antenna for both receive and transmit). A little lossy (~8 dB) but again 4W uplink is the weak link. Only catch is their window filter is only 1.2 MHz wide so all of your frequencies have to be within that window but it does allow one to use a single RX/TX antenna.
One thing you can also look into (though its pricey) is something like the RFI MiniSystem Combiner (SP model which has a single antenna for both receive and transmit). A little lossy (~8 dB) but again 4W uplink is the weak link. Only catch is their window filter is only 1.2 MHz wide so all of your frequencies have to be within that window but it does allow one to use a single RX/TX antenna.