You may find that most car washes won't want you in there with any sort of rack on top. I'd check that and make sure it's even an option. Around here they are not allowed, at least at the few car washes I used to go to.
Doesn't matter if you have the fold over mount, it's going to catch on something. Only way to be really safe is to remove the antenna and put a cap over it. A small diameter quarter wave will usually survive, but I wouldn't trust it, at least not with my own trucks.
As for the antenna, that's all I run on VHF, a basic quarter wave.
Higher gain can be a problem in rugged terrain as the antenna radiation pattern is usually pushing it out towards the horizon, and not as much goes up. If you are in the mountains, you may find that a 1/4 wave works better.
I've got them on my personal trucks and my work truck.
Nice thing about NMO mounts is that you can try out different antennas. A simple 1/4 wave is going to be about $10, so easy enough to try and won't break the bank.
On my UTV (Polaris Ranger) I have a 1/2 wave Laird on the roll cage. Works well and puts up with the less than ideal ground plane pretty well.
I'm not sure how the K9000 would provide a good ground plane when the base of the antenna will be several inches above the vehicle body.
I've been running Larsen antennas for 30 years on full size trucks. That includes long road trips, parking garages, off road, tree branches, large bugs, even a bird or two. I've never had one fail me.
Recently, I've been trying EM Wave antennas. I have one on the wife's truck and one on my own truck, and so far I really like them.
As for the Larsen antennas. I've taken a few of them through low parking garages without issues. Even one that was low enough that the spring at the base took a permanent bend. My dad used to pull his full size Chevy into the garage every night with a 1/4 wave whip on the roof. Hundreds and hundreds of times without issue.
I'd find a place to mount two NMO mounts. Then get one of the Larsen NMO-2/70 antennas for your dual band radio, and a 1/4 wave or 1/2 wave antenna for your GMRS radio.
I ran the Larsen NMO-2/70SH, the 19" tall model antenna, for many years, no problems. When I was active on GMRS, all I used was 1/4 wave whips. I tried higher gain antennas once, and I didn't notice any difference at all. The 1/4 waves worked well around here where there's a lot of mountains and the primary GMRS repeater we used was on top of one of them.