amusement said:Lindsay,
Your attempt to elude responsibility is irrevelant to the situation. Making a "coliseum event" out of my refund request is absurb for a business. I am shocked and dismayed by your attempt to make use this situation as enterainment for the masses.
Further, your attempts to humilate me, in the forums is futile. Just 12 hours ago, we existed in harmony. Creating policies that generate this type of confrontation provides an opprotunity for further critisism from guests and members.
Finally, you lost before your stated by not engaging the community before your spontaneous policies emerged. I find the irony that you know choose to engage the community after you made your policy.
Amusement,
First, let me start off by saying that your contributions to this site are greatly appreciated, and I'm sure all the members here of the site can agree with me on that statement.
However, you came out of the gate on this issue by telling another member "why don't you let your WTF post stand, I agree". No one is eluding responsiblity except yourself. You made a concious decision to donate money to this web site. We can all have our oppinions about this issue, however, that stuck a nerve with me. I don't like people coming out like jerks on a situation like this, and frankly, that's how I took it. Am I a little sensitive about this issue, you bet... I have great reason to be.
So then your very next posting was, "I want my money back." I don't care how gentle you make the request, the smack in the face to me and the rest of the site is the same. If you didn't want this to be a collisieum event, you would have sent me a private email explaining that "I'd like my money back, here is my reasoning" Instead, you posted it publicly. You then subsequently through further postings attempt to question the process and manner for which I run this web site.
Finally, management by consensus does not work. As you can see by the results of this thread alone, we would have made no further progress on this issue if I would have "engaged the community."