BMT, that's less than helpful.
RyanH356, Re listening for the military - our military monitoring wiki has a section called 'Where to Start' that should be one of the first places you visit. In particular, I'd concentrate on finding out whether your local airport has any UHF assignments - many that are near military areas often do, simply because flights cross their airspace, and there's a need for coordination. Check the Databases here first to see if there's a listing.
Next, visit the ARTCC link and see if you can hear any of the Kansas City (probably one of the closest to you) UHF freqs. While I'm aware that KC isn't near you, it's likely the flights coming from/to KC will be audible. Don't forget to visit the mid air refueling freqs map - it's a bit old, but may suggest other potential targets.
And while I'm on the subject of KC, there's what appears to be an active Yahoo scanning egroup for that area. It's quite likely someone there can at least point you in the right direction.
The URLs are:
http://wiki.radioreference.com/index.php/VHF/UHF_Military_Monitoring
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/kc-scanning/
You didn't say much about what equipment you are using - but that's going to play a big role in what you hear or don't. Getting an antenna up in the air will also be a big factor. The wiki page has much to say about that as well 73s Mike