after i got it working with some jumper wires, i cut the db9 connector off the 2.5mm plug and cut the wires from the back of the db9 connector from the GPS. I directly soldered them to avoid the plugs and adapters. Took me a while to figure out which cables connect to which, so i'll put it here in case anyone comes across this thread trying to do the same thing...
2.5mm -> GPS
Red -> Black
White -> White
Shield -> Green
2.5mm -> GPS
Red -> Black
White -> White
Shield -> Green