First off, securely mount any antenna onto an oversized tower. For example, don't use the typical push-up pole, or other home-made type of mounting (PVC, fence rail pipes, etc.) since they may work in generally low wind conditions, they're not made to withstand high wind conditions. Shorter towers will withstand wind better than tall towers so minimize your height. Read the wind load specs on your tower and get one that's designed to work in your high winds! Oversize your tower base as well. The typical 3x3x3 base (for example) may not work well for you so try something larger, 4x4x4 or larger may be necessary. Guys will probably be necessary as well.
You don't indicate what band or bands you monitor so I can't say "get this antenna, it'll work for you". I can give you some more generic advice though. Ignore the typical home hobbyist antennas. Go for a commercial antenna, they're designed to work 24/7/365. It will be expensive, but you'll probably only need to buy it once. With a flimsy design you'll end up replacing it many times. Be aware that you won't get one of those "dc to daylight" antennas (more specifically 30 MHz - 1 GHz or higher), but in most cases you only monitor one or two bands anyway so that shouldn't be an issue. That single band antenna will probably work better on the designed frequency band than one with a huge frequency range anyway.