thats why im going to go digital to try to avoid these living fossils
I'm sure your pocket sized LTE/GSM/CDMA digital device that you pay monthly for will fit the bill for this and you will be able to turn off than annoying analog radio of yours and enjoy the silence until someone calls you for a meaningful QSO.
Putting that sarcasm aside, this is what Amateur Radio is all about. I have a regular QSO every morning during my drive time with a few close friends and we talk about subjects just like what you complained about and there is nothing wrong with it at all.