I think you will hear long, drawn-out repeater conversations between just two people in pretty much all parts of the country. New hams and old hams alike need to exercise some tolerance to members of the other group.
I had to think about exactly that maybe 12 years ago when I first set up Echolink on my repeater. I would wake up to a couple of guys chatting for hours on the repeater most mornings when I was still living in the Midwest. I had an MSF repeater with an antenna on top of a water tank. They connected through a control station in my ham shack. I was kind of torqued as the control station got really hot during the QSO, but waited a while to try to figure out what was going on. As it turned out, they were both in the military together years (and years) ago and were pilots. The one lived near me, the other in Michigan. They were able to dial up on the repeater and pretty much talk about nothing, but kept each other company throughout the morning.
Then I looked back at the reason why I set up Echolink in the first place. It wasn't to connect randomly from hither and yon. I had a friend back east who I wanted to keep in touch with. Very long story short, my setup only got turned on after my friend died. Stuff happens. We would have been doing exactly the same thing. This sounds strange, but I feet like I didn't go through all the work for nothing, even though my buddy and I weren't using it.
At the end of the day, I was glad these guys were able to connect. Not for any other reason that ham radio was keeping two friends in touch. I never broke in on them when they were talking, but did manage to speak with both of the guys after they wrapped up. They were okay guys. I was also happy somebody other than my family was using the repeater. Pretty soon, I got tired of the Echolink random connect-and-leave-connected stuff, so I blocked everything except the port these guys used.
We had a saying about this stuff in New Jersey: "Eh, whaddaya gonna do?"