These days, especially in this area, most desirable new-build developments have HOA's. I knew what I was getting into when we bought here and weighed the advantages and disadvantages. Our HOA is strict about appearance, maintenance and other conditions and that goes two ways. I live in a beautiful community where I can rest assured my neighbor won't be filling his yard with wrecked cars and junk but I cannot have a tower or roof full of antennas. I chose this over a custom house specifically for this reason but made sure to check the attic before I bought (realtor thought I was slightly crazy, she didn't know the half of it...) The HOA fees here are reasonable and pay for amenities one can't get elsewhere. They aren't for everyone but if you bought a home there you should have known what you were getting into before you did.
I did not feel cheated at all, we knew well what we were getting into and looked for two years before buying here. We looked at a couple non-HOA areas but didn't like them. I would have no problem staying here even with the restrictions. While outside antennas would be great I have lived in HOA's all my adult life and I am OK with it. I live in the foothills at a decent elevation, almost 1000 feet higher than Phoenix itself but separated by a mountain range so most of my reception of the city is blocked anyway.
One place we are looking at now has no HOA but has some design standards. The houses are all custom built but have a couple standards such as the garage/shop cannot be higher than the house, standardized entry/mailbox and lot size but no restrictions on towers and antennas other than heights due to the adjacent GA airport. If we end up building here I can design my office and tower access. I already have an idea about this involving a fenced in utility area with the WHG, pool equipment, HVAC and tower.
We are also looking at another HOA community but at least the homes there have even better attics then this one. My problem is that the wife has two votes to my one ;-).
One thing I got a kick out of when I bought here was a form I had to sign when we closed acknowledging that we live within a MOA and that there are periods of intense low flying jet aircraft activity in the area. The closer thought I was nuts when I asked if we had to pay extra for that and said "Cool!" when she said no. It is kind of neat to be floating around the pool and watching F16's and F-35's buzzing around all afternoon. Most of my CloseCall hits here are in the Mil-Air band...