Not bent out of shape, I just get weary of the arguments I see on this site about mundane semantics, terminology, etc.
Yes, I understand the difference between dBd and dBi. What I've found over the years is that while people will argue about the meaning, the honesty of vendors and manufacturers and the like, I very rarely see people that back up these discussions with actual first hand experience. I'm not claiming to be the only one here with experience here, just tired of seeing a post where someone new asks a simple question and then that gets followed by 40 something posts where people argue out the details.
Like I said, the OP asked a simple question and deserved a straightforward and simple answer. I've tried quarter waves, 5/8 wave, 1/2 wave and just about any other "wave" you want to talk about, and unless I'm on the fringes, I've really never noticed a difference, and even then it was minimal. What often matters more is focusing on sound installation practices and not cutting corners.