Get your technician license & get on amateur, and/or GMRS, $35.00 for 10 years & no test for the license
If you're still in the Tampa area, there's the Tampa 575, the Tampa 700 [it's not as active as the 575, but it's there],
& the Clearwater 600 on GMRS, all three are open repeaters
The Tampa 575 & Clearwater 600 repeater owners are both hams also, & have repeaters on both services
Several users I speak with are both ham & GMRS, or they're studying for their ticket, & they're a bunch of good guys
I'm only GMRS, I don't have a ham license so I can't speak for the ham repeaters or users
I have listened to a few local repeaters on my scanner though & I haven't heard any jerks there
As my parents used to say: "Don't let the b@$t@rd$ win!"
Pardon my language, but it needs to be said
73 to everyone, ham, CB, GMRS, SWLs...
Edit: My apologies, I didn't see that you're now in SC, still, go for your ham ticket, check the RR database for ham repeaters in your area,
& check mygmrs.com for open repeaters near you