Bailly2: First....and large airport they will have a "tower" frequency in which you will hear all arriving within 10 miles and all departing aircraft. They will then be switched to a TRACON for raadar sequencing. All arrivals prior to calling tower will also be on TRACON as well. Smaller general aviation will, as "freqhopping" stated, be on a Unicom/CTAF frequency. Now to find all this out...the best site I have found is "airnav". Go to airnav.com......type in the name of the airports and you will get all the info I just discussed. You will also note on the side there is a picture of the airport and below that a chart.....with yellow city outliners and blue markings. Click on that and you will see concentric circles around airports with blue numbers in them.....they are the altitudes in thousand of feet (just add zeros) where contact with ATC is mandatory. This long answer is that private aircraft...if above, below or outside this airspace does NOT need to contact ATC...so you may not hear private aircraft once they take of from an uncontrolled field. For higher altitude stuff....go to RR for your area and look up the corresponding " center" for your area (Zxxx) and look it up......rather than attenuate....try an air band pass filter......good luck.