You mentioned that you have been interested in trying SDR and right after that said that you tried an RX 320. I can’t tell if you include it in your thoughts as an SDR or not. Possibly you already know this but just for clarification the RX 320 is not an SDR. It is an SCR (Software Controlled Radio) but of a traditional analogue superheterodyne type.
As for will you be disappointed with either an Excalibur or a Perseus in comparison to the radios you already have, that is a hard question to answer and will depend on what your criteria of judgment are.
In reference to your list and your radios of comparison I own the R8500 (x2), the R75 (x2), and have owned the R8 but do not currently have one. I have used the RX 350 but not for any length of time so it would be unfair of me to compare to that. I own several SDRs, including both the Excalibur and the Perseus.
The best indication of my opinion I can make is that since I got my Excalibur (and other SDRs, including Perseus, but the Excalibur is my personal favorite) I no longer really use the R8500 or the R75. One of my R8500s is dedicated to a GlobalTuners node so other people can use it, the other R8500 monitors local public service. The two R75s are used to set on discrete frequencies and make audio recordings. This is pretty much the only way I use any of my other traditional radios also. For searching and tuning I am pretty much SDR only.
So it sounds like a slam dunk, I am saying the SDRs are better. But it is more complex than that simple statement. None of my SDRs are as sensitive as a couple of my traditional radios, in laboratory measurements. The R75 and the R8500 are more sensitive than the Perseus, and possibly slightly more sensitive than, or on par with, the Excalibur. Call the Excalibur and those traditional radios a wash in sensitivity, with the Perseus slightly behind.
But outside this possible very slight sensitivity advantage of the traditional radios the SDRs are better in almost every way (for this comparison set of radios). SDRs have greater dynamic range. SDRs have better and tighter filters and selectivity. SDRs have almost infinitely variable filter bandwidths instead of one to a few fixed bandwidths.
Outside the comparable features there are so many things the SDR does that the traditional radio does not do. Display a wide chunk of spectrum to cue the user to signal activity and to reveal signal and band actions that would be difficult to impossible to see otherwise. Record pieces of spectrum for later review and also allow the user to pause the radio audio, and spectrum, while you do something else (think of it as a DVR for shortwave). Show a visual representation of the signal, aiding in identification and characterization of the signal. Etc.
Will you be disappointed? I can’t say, but I can say I am most certainly not disappointed with using SDRs instead of traditional radios. If your use is broadcast SWL, tuning to a frequency and listening to a program from a foreign land on known freqs and times then the SDR might not be for you. The SDR really has little to no advantage in this application. It is not worse, just not better.
RFI is an issue I cannot really help you get your head around. Here I have little computer noise in my SDRs and really have not had too much of a problem or had to chase things down. But, I know other users that have had issues. I have had a very little bit of RFI to chase down, don’t get me wrong, but it was RFI I was going to have to chase even if I was not using an SDR or computer attached radio.
T!