Basically I don't want to mount a radio on the vehicles dash want to use portable radio instead....issue is if we go to another county 4 watt radio isn't strong enough to hit our towers
A "command vehicle" that you don't want to mount a radio in? But installing a 100 watt repeater in said vehicle is OK?
Not sure I'm clear on the logic here.
The hand held control head is a good option. You can get them for Motorola, Kenwood and L3Harris radios.
You can add a mobile repeater to link from your portable radio back into the mobile radio to extend the reach.
You also need to look at licensing.
The license for the radio system you operate on will only cover a certain area, usually listed a distance in kilometers around a center point. You'd need to make sure the license covers you transmitting in the adjacent counties.
The license will also show how much power you can run from the mobiles. You'd need to make sure that whatever you install is compliant with that.
Another option, if all you need is a radio in the "command vehicle" is a vehicular adapter.
Motorola and L3Harris make docking stations for some of their higher tier portables that will hold the radio and connect it to the vehicle antenna, power, speaker and microphone. An RF amplifier can be connected to that to boost your range.