muskie999,
The 'CB' connectors you're talking about are a PL-259, male, on the end of the coax, and an SO-239, female, on the antenna or radio chassis. They are very commonly used on HF and some VHF gear.
The little 1/8" thingys are 'SMA' connectors. Various manufacturers use them because they are small, but they also use either male or female connectors on radios and antennas. You have to pay attention to which is used where, doesn't seem to be any 'standard' way of doing that. I'm not familiar with your radio so won't try to guess what type you'd need.
While it's true that 'adapters' tend to introduce a little bit of loss, they also serve a very useful purpose which in a lot of cases 'nullify' that small loss in most cases. It's nice not to have to use them but when you do need to, do so.
- 'Doc
(Oh, BNC connectors are about 1/2 in diameter, and are attached by pushing them onto the opposite gender connector and giving them a 1/4 twist to lock them. I like them much better than those SMAs, but you don't get a choice in most cases. Oh well.)