Does SDR Sharp connect then crash or does it run for awhile and stop?
Just a couple of thoughts.
Since this is all being done over TCP, it might be a network problem. If SDR Sharp loses the data stream it will potentially hang up.
After many hours of fooling with the Pi, I found that it can be a bit cantankerous. When I first started experimenting with it, I was having all kind of weird problems. It turned out it wasn't happy with my SD card. Putting in a new one fixed it right up. So, you never know what might be going on.
As far as the turbo mode is concerned, it only kicks on when the Pi deems necessary. There is a little indicator on the lower right corner you can mouse over to see what frequency it is running at.
The only other program that I am aware of that can use the RTL sticks over TCP is
SDR-J
However, is not as easy to work with as SDR Sharp in my opinion.