OK, so cannot be used to bridge a preamp without running a second wire, and a third, up the coax as it has no fail safe mode.
Or use a bridge rectifier for the relay and preamp and then a diode in one direction to one control pin and a diode in the other direction to the other control pin and then switch polarity of the 12V at the bias-T.
Will probably need a 470uF reservoir capacitor on the bridge rectifier to hold a steady 12V during the polarity switch.
Probably better to buy a fail safe relay that configures the connection to bypass the preamp at power loss.
/Ubbe