It's up to the radio manufacturer how to deal with "promiscuous" reception of alternate slots. But slot recognition is
not determined by mere timing. The slot number has a bit in the packet that indicates what the slot is. If it didn't, radios would never be able to sync with a repeater. And they don't need to sync with other simplex radios at all. Your understanding of this is faulty. You can find the specs here.
Digital Mobile Radio Association | The DMR Standards, developed by ETSI
Nope. Your understanding is faulty. After a preamble, the data packets start on either slot 1, and the radio un-keys during slot 2, or the radio sends the preamble, and unkeys, then begins on slot 2.
The RX radio has no way to know if it lost a packet, and is receiving slot 1 or slot 2, unless the empty slot is filled with blank data, aka a time sync.
This is what the repeater does. It fills the un-used slot with sync data so that as soon as traffic starts on that other slot, the RX radios know where it is in time, and ignore it.
Why do you think they make “dual direct radios”!? And how are you even arguing this? Get a couple radios that are not capable of dual direct TX, and set them to different time slots, and see if you can have a conversation on a slot without the other radios RX it. You’ll quickly discover it has nothing to do with manufacturers. It IS the standard. The transmitting radio, repeater, sets the clock, sets the sync. If it doesn’t, the RX radio has no way to determine if it just missed a packet in time, or if it is on slot 1 or slot 2. You go try it and tell me what you find out. I’ve tried it with dozens of radios and it always comes out the same.