Entitlement mentality
I am amazed at the entitlement mentality of some folks:
"I am entitled to services at a rate (or lack of rate) that I deem fair..."
"I am entitled to have my desires considered before a private owner makes a private decision regarding a private website..."
"I am entitled to a refund of a voluntary donation anytime the organization I donated to changes its business model..."
"I am entitled to use the services to condemn and vilify the service provider..."
"I am entitled to a guarantee of free speech on a private web site..."
You are not entitled to anything provided by a private party. Fair has nothing to do with it. Lindsay has set what he believes to be a reasonable rate for value-added services. I happen to agree with his decision, and think the rate is fine. But, Lindsay will have the opportunity to continually guage the market response to that decision, and can adjust it as he sees fit. He could make the entire site subscription only, or close down the domain. Fair has nothing to do with. Life is not, nor is it about, fair.
This web site is private property. Lindsay is under no obligation to consult with anyone in advance of making a decision regarding this site. He may give you the opportunity to discuss (politely) your thoughts on a decision, or not, although "polite" seems to be a foreign concept to a very few...
A voluntary donation to anyone or any entity is just that. It is a voluntary transfer of funds from one party to another. Your entitlement regarding any say as to that donation ends when you tell PayPal or your credit card company or bank to turn loose of the funds. Turn loose - now there's a concept that has applicability here.
It amazes me that Lindsay has not simply blocked access to this site for a few. He must be a right patient old boy. What a pleasure - bearing the costs of providing the forum in which the cost-bearer can experience the pleasure of repeated brow-beatings. And the umbrage at a thread or post being deleted... as if you have a "right" to have a private website host your thoughts... or drivel as the case may be.
You will not be successful in walking into WalMart and telling the manager that he's chosen the wrong price for an item and to mark it down. The little smiley-face hatchet dude doesn't answer to you.
You will not be successful in challenging the WalMart managers decision to no longer offer vision services at that store, nor will he agree that he should have asked you first before making the decision.
If a business, church, person, etc., asks you for money and you give it, you are not likely to get a "refund" if you don't like the new policy, last sermon, or the fact that the bum bought booze instead of the burger he mentioned. Its no longer your money. Period.
You wil not be successful in walking into a building a posting your criticisms of their business on their wall. Unless you consider being successful being forcibly removed and / or your sign destroyed.
The same applies to a web site. You are not entitled to its existence, a say in its policies, or the right to access it or post on it.
Lindsay, thank you for the valuable site. I've been remiss in not donating more. Will be subscribing with pleasure.
Take care.
Terry Wolf