Yup, I prefer ta leave mine off on sideband myself (Drives my gf nuts on long trips..lol..) "Git", you probably noticed that the squelch works totally opposite on SSB than it does on AM or FM...
On the other topic- Elmers?? Sure it's nice to have an Elmer, I had one & he told me this.."The only way to learn anything in this hobby is to go ahead & experiment"...Besides, How many people here 'actually' read the operators manual on a new rig before turning it on? Antenna-check, red on positive black on negative-check,transmit lock button off-check, POWER.....lol The only thing that I read in my 706mkIIg manual (darn bible) in the 5 years I've owned it is about the DSP board, everything else is pretty easy...