When I made this post I had no idea what frequencies USAF aircraft use. Also I wasn't wanting to know exactly what aircraft it was, I just wanted to know that an aircraft was there. During maritime, they wouldn't really have a need to focus their radar to any specific area of the sky, so they would just blast it out just to see what was out there so they can avoid it. This means that if I knew what frequency range a certain aircraft used, then I would be able to detect it. I do see amazing military tech all the time, I live very close to Edwards AFB and Plant 42, so there's no need to really go anywhere when everything flies right over your head on a daily basis. The last time I went to my local military base I took photos of the B-21 sitting on the runway.
Not sure what you mean with "maritime".
But...
Wanting to know, in general, when an aircraft is there is different than knowing what frequencies it's radar(s) use.
You wont be able to differentiate between military and civilian aircraft with anything other than receiving their transponder code, and knowing what block of codes is assigned to each general type of aircraft.
You could go with the SDR bistatic radar approach, which at one point someone on hackaday (I think) was going to post the code for, but then realized it would violate ITAR (international trafficking in arms regulations).
Which means that unless you are a reasonably good programmer and decent at RF things, you might be better off with an array of directional microphones looking for the specific sounds of jets...
or listening on the radio for tower takeoff clearances.
Even in WW I artillery batteries were located by the sound of the cannons firing with an array of microphones.
Thanks
Joel