For work, it's pretty much the same:
Fluke multimeter is usually the first thing I grab out of my truck.
Also in the work truck:
Telewave directional wattmeter. It covers VHF, UHF and 700/800MHz and up to 500 watts without needing slugs.
Bird 100 watt dummy load good up to 1GHz.
Kit of adapters.
Decent quality (so you can trust them) coax jumpers.
I've got a service monitor and all that, but that's work stuff, and I don't carry it in the truck.
For ham use, it's pretty much the same thing at home. Only difference is I don't have a service monitor. I do have a NanoVNA antenna analyzer.
The Multimeter, watt meter and dummy load will get you a long ways with stuff that is easily fixed/serviced by the average ham. The NanoVNA is a nice add-on.
Bare minimum I would go with:
1. Both digital and analog multimeters. As noted earlier, even a halfway decent DMM is perfectly sufficient; for ham use a Fluke or other similarly overpriced DMM is overkill as all you need to do is measure voltage and resistance, check for continuity, etc.
An analog multimeter is not indispensable but is very handy to have, especially if you'll be aligning radios the old-fashioned way (it's a lot easier to watch the needle swing to a peak than to try and decipher the jumping numbers on a DMM. You can't go wrong with a Simpson 260.
2. SWR meter and preferably a separate wattmeter. In addition to a couple of SWR meters, I use an old Bird 43 that works like a champ.
2a. An antenna analyzer isn't necessary but it sure is handy. I have a RigExpert AA-1000 I wouldn't be without; it covers all the bases including SWR (but not power).
3. A good dummy load. I use one rated 100 watts from DB Products which has a nice flat response all the way to 1 GHz.
4. A set of good tools and a soldering iron. Don't buy cheap stuff.
5. A frequency standard of some sort, even if it's a 5 or 10 MHz oscillator you build yourself. As long as it's stable. You can use this to verify that your rig is on frequency.
If you get deeper into homebrewing, some things you should have include:
Frequency counter
RF generator
RF probe
Signal tracer
DIP meter
EDIT: Above is just the minimum. I've also got all sorts of professional gear, from spectrum analyzer/tracking generator to a communications analyzer (as well as the aforementioned Nano VNA), but I wouldn't recommend that sort of stuff to anyone unless you're
very serious about radio.....