No - and here's the reason why. Both of those portables are not designed to handle the amount of RF that a 100 foot wire (and I'm deliberately not calling it a longwire - that is a completely different animal - although you can say that it is a long wire). As you suspected, you are overloading both radios very heavily. A desktop (say a R-75) is designed to handle such loads easily - those 2 portables won't.
So I need first off is to cut the wire back to about 30 FT MAX.
I'm not so big on hooking up a ground to the same one used by a satellite system and cable hookups. There's no way to validate that the ground was done properly. RF grounding is a whole lot more than just ramming a ground rod into the ground - there have been MANY discussions about this very topic in the past, and whole sections of books devoted to this.
The ground I'm using is the ground for my home electrical meter. So it should be a proper earth ground
Trying to shield out RF from computers and such with radios with basically plastic cases is next to impossible, really. The antenna isn't the only culprit here - the RF can go right through that case as if it really isn't there. There's the additional possibility of having it coupled through the wall wart - which is notorious for poor shielding in the first place. You need to stop it at the source - and again, there have been whole books written on this subject.
I'm so freaking stupid on that front. You are so right. The EMI is going right through the radio case making it 10 Xs worse
Let's start with the antenna. Both portables probably couldn't handle more than 20-30 foot tops - perhaps a bit more but not by much. I wouldn't at all be surprised if even this amount is a bit too much at times. If it were me, I'd stick to the small amplified loops - which have the advantage of being able to move them around to find a quiet spot in the room. The Kaito KA33 is one example.
I'd go that route. BUT I have a large brick wall that the room is attached to (room was a add on) that blocks alot of signals. Hince the second need to a outdoor antenna.
Now if you have some soldering and constructing skills, the Carpet Loop antenna I used to use a while back - and it was quite interesting. I had it on a TenTec RX320, and found it worked pretty well. The wire element can be as big (or small) as you like. The links for both, and much more, can be found here...
Loops - The RadioReference Wiki
I have some construction and soldering skills. I soldered the "wire" antenna I have now. I've also tried overhead runs before. More like a dipole type. But in a L fashion. This was a total train-wreck. My desktop computer, TV, etc caused more noise in the radio than ever. A carpet loop probably would be worse as it would be closer to the source.
The best lightning arrestor is disconnecting the radios from the antenna (and if you can, ground the feed line) during a thunderstorm. Arrestors aren't a panacea - they can and do drain static charges, but they can and do fail. Too, they're generally set up for coax feedlines - and most small portables like you have won't perform very well with low impedance inputs.
My plan for lightning arresting was a coax coupling disconnect from the radio. Also solder a piece of RG-6 from the copper center pin to the outer braid connection that was grounded.
best regards...Mike