Dont let other hams Define the hobby for you Define it for your self.......
Can we get an AMEN.
I became a ham back in the mid 1980s (1986 to be exact, just after STS-51 disaster happened). I was 9 when I studied for my novice and 10 when I actually got it. Back then, the FCC and VE system was brand new and all on paper. Took 6 months from time test passed until ticket arrived.
Didn't really get serious (and could afford any radios) until 1990 when I upgraded to technician and bought a used HT. It was like opening a door to a new world. I had a multi-band receiver and tuned into many a 2 meter repeater as well as the local po-po, and was always fascinated with LMR. Whether it was the tax driver or the ambulance, it all ran on radio. Love all forms of radio and broadcast was one of the first things I was exposed to and remember as a child.
Ham radio, and the connections I made, guided me to become an LMR professional in public safety radio. I've been with my current agency for 9 years, implemented two trunking systems, built our current CAD, and dabbled in our PSAP telephony as well. The common thread that lead me here was ham radio.
No, it is not an "emergency" radio service, but many hams are also trained and vetted professionals who's love and respect for RF bring many skill sets to the table. That is what it is about: skill sets of the operator. Not hoarding equipment, making social media posts for click bait, or one upping the next guy, it is about YOU finding and defining the skill set(s) that make YOU a competent operator and allows you to "enhance the art of radio communications" as is spelled out in the basis and purpose of the Amateur Radio Service of 47 CFR 97.1
That being said, have fun, enjoy and as a local ham club president says "ham radio: if you're not having fun, you're doing it wrong".