thanks. So I’m guessing that the 2 and 70 can reach GMRS (I can RX perfectly on my UV5r and tx perfectly on the Wouxun) to the 2 repeaters I was able to linkup with once I got Chirp down pat. What is the technical reason 2 and 70 can do “alright” on GMRS but not perfectly? Is it physically possible to have 1 antenna that can do all 3?
Antennas only have so much usable bandwidth. That is, the antenna only provides a low SWR (radiates the energy well) on specific parts of the band. Most of these ham antennas are designed to work well in the 430-450MHz range, where the 70cm band is. GMRS is up at 462/467MHz, which is well away from 70cm.
The antenna needs to be resonate at the bands you want to use it on. You have some leeway, and the amount of leeway (bandwidth) will depend on the exact design of the antenna. Usually when you design an antenna for more bandwidth, the performance/gain drops off quickly. If you want better performance/gain, the bandwidth drops off quickly. Finding the sweet spot can be a challenge, especially in mobile environments and with widely spaced frequencies, like 70cm and GMRS.
I know you said to watch out for the gimmicks with that one antenna with 2 whips on it. I would imagine the best solution is to mount 2 antennas on the jeep- one for 2 and 70 and the other for GMRS- but would that mean I have to switch often?
Is there something that would allow the radio to be tied onto 2antennas at once?
What would be the “best” option for 1 antenna at the moment? The Larsen, comet or something else?
Band specific antennas are best since they are optimized for the bands you want to use them on.
It's not just low SWR you are looking for, it's also the radiation pattern. That is, where the antenna focuses the energy. You want that energy to go in the direction of the other station you want to talk to (or the repeater).
If you used one radio for 2 meters, 70cm and GMRS, and you wanted to run a dual band antenna for ham, and a dedicated GMRS antenna, you'd need to switch between the antennas when you wanted to transmit.
There are diplexers that will split antenna ports by frequency, but getting one that will split 70cm from GMRS and do it well would be expensive, as in "cheaper to buy a dedicated GMRS radio" expensive.
So, "best" antenna?
Yeah, ask 10 different people and you'll get at least 11 different opinions. You have some good options above. Which one you decide to go with will depend on which compromises you want to make. No one can really answer that for you.