During the past ~35 years, I have found the cross band (as opposed to happy band?) repeat function quite useful. Whether doing a "public safety/service" event or hiking (or other activities) in remote areas, it can be rather handy (no pun intended). One important point is to use as little transmitter power as possible; this will prevent overheating and excessive battery draw. Keeping transmissions short and concise also helps greatly. The down side often occurs when accessing a (ham) repeater using a cross band repeat function. Many repeaters have long squelch tails, replete with voice blabbers and other noise; this prevents accessing that repeater until the tail drops. There are many operators who do not let it drop, so a cross band repeat user is effectively locked out.
I understand the need for long tails, but with today's repeaters and solid state T/R switching, there is no need. There are no relay and burned contacts. Even the old commercial repeaters (and their relays) will take an inordinate amount of activity without damage.