Just like the uniden scanners have test mode (press certain buttons while powering up), their cordless phones can be put into test mode. I lost the article that had the exact key press, but I'm sure it was pressing 2 or 3 buttons while putting the headset battery back in. I could take my 900Mhz digital phone, put it in test mode, and change channels, mute the mic, mute the speaker, enable transmit/disable transmit. The base unit can also be put in test mode (usually by pressing the PAGE button and plugging in the wall wort).
5.6Ghz scanners cost you your left nut, and still won't decode digital phones. However uniden digital phones cost.....about 90 bucks?
Look at Best buy and you'll notice that most 5.6ghz phones say digital, but nothing about encryption.. Hrmmm how interesting.
In the 900Mhz haydays, I was able to pick up 3 digital calls with my Uniden in test mode, but it really got to be a pain in the ass changing channels manually. I made sure when doing this, I disabled the transmitter, so as not to interfer with the person I was listening to.
Squelch circuits are not hard to build, and some simple circuit to simulate pressing the ch.up/ch. down button would not be hard to make. Sounds like a fun project.
I have never found test mode for V-tech phones.