If I understand correctly, you want to reduce the aircraft band sensitivity but still retain everything else, but you would like the ability to bring back the aircraft band occasionally. You get an aircraft bandpass filter, put in a Tee piece in your antenna feed line, then connect the input of bandpass filter from one leg of the Tee and the output to ground. This should shunt all the aircraft band signals to ground but leave everything else. If this works satisfactorily, install a variable attenuator in the feed from the Tee to the filter. It can be an expensive HP 355D attenuator or a simple 10 or 20dB switched attenuator you can make yourself.