Glenn, glad you got things working. If you look at my Post #16 you will notice that it is identical to Thomas' Post #45 so at least we agree. LOL! Whereas the pin numbering on the female connector (when facing the camera) is clockwise, the pin numbering on the male connector (when facing the camera) is counterclockwise. I should have stated that in that particular post but failed to. Sorry...
As for the squeal, in my post, I questioned about tying the shield to ground and whether or not that would be right or wrong. I wasn't sure. You can test it by just soldering a short jumper between the pins to see if it makes it better or worse. I could not tell what it was going to do looking at the schematic. Keep us posted.
Cheers! Dave K4EET