When getting to know any group of people there are ups and downs.
Just to establish where I am coming from, I am one of those 60ish guys. No we are not all the same. I am 61, have had a ham license for 49 years (yep, I was 12). I have operated HF, VHF, and UHF mostly for just talking to people.
Now having said that, there are times I too have felt left out, or felt like the outsider. Mostly that feeling was me doing it to myself.
At 13 years of age I was routinely talking to a lot of adults on HF regularly. I ended up talking to doctors, lawyers, a B-52 weapons officer, a Treasury Agent (yes, Secret Service), and a guy who used to write for All in the Family, Adam 12, and Three's Company (WA6AAA, Bryan), and even Herbert Hoover III (yes, the grandson of a President).
A lot of these people answered my CQs on both voice and CW (yes, I am also a code nerd).
I even used to run the old WestCARS net on 7.255 as a teenager sometimes.
Yet even I had a hard time this last year getting back into the swing of things on 2m/440 on one of the local repeaters. I felt like the outsider, and why would anyone want to talk to me? So I listened as others talked and remained frustrated. I got in my own way. Then I opened my mouth and put my call out there. Someone talked to me. We had an interesting conversation and then I went on my way. The next day I tried it again, and someone talked to me again and we had another interesting conversation.
This was on a local repeater where I am not even a member of the sponsoring club. One of the members suggested I come to one of their breakfasts and told me where it was located. I happened to mention to another member that I was listening one day but had not broken in. He said, "Don't do that. Pop in. Say something. That's why I waited a few times to see if anyone else was around."
One thing I realize is that people (well at least me) like to talk with people who are interested in something. I'm kind of all over the map in that regard. Just over a week ago I was at a Jet RC Airplane rally (ever see and hear a real jet RC plane, it's cool). Every year I attend the Phoenix Comicon (yes I am a SciFi nerd, but hey last year I was there for the major Babylon 5 reunion, and the prior year for the Star Trek Next Gen reunion). My wife is teaching me how to make a quilt. I have written articles for online paranormal magazines. I regularly help people online who are restoring/repairing antique radio receivers.
A guy I find interesting to listen to has a major model railroad setup in his back yard and has installed his own solar house power system. Another couple of people are playing with those Raspberry Pi miniature computers (they run Linux).
I guess what I am trying to say, is that Ham Radio is what you make of it. We are not all the same. We are not all just a dying breed (well I almost died 3 months ago, but that's another story). And just because some of us are 60ish, doesn't mean we don't enjoy talking to young people or even older people than we are.
Curtis Eickerman
WB6PUS