You might want to read about FCC's ultrawideband rules. You can transmit anywhere from 960-10600 MHz as long as your power density is low enough. This happened in the early 2000's, and is used in ground penetrating radar, and everybody's iPhone 11+.
Again, no regulation has worked fine at 2.4 and 5 GHz, and is being expanded with light-touch CBRS. With CBRS, they're monitoring the power in the bands and are going to stop licensing when it hits a certain point.
Directly to this point, no test, no coordinator GMRS has proven to have a much wider audience than ham, both for users and repeater operators.
People had the same arguments as you with CDMA in 1995, and UWB in 2000. How does a cell system with everybody interfering with each other work? People even said it violated Shannon's law. The people who ignored the old way and understood the math and physics of that made a lot of money at Qualcomm.
And ultimately, look at the UK. They're throwing out their nationwide TETRA system and going to LTE. Their train system runs off GSM with an eventual evolution to LTE. That's how things are likely going in the future decades.
You are seriously comparing short range (measured in feet in the case of 802.11 and +/- a block for UWB) with gobs of bandwidth to A narrowband FM wide area communications system with only 175 khz of bandwidth total for outbound (ok plus another 175 for the inbound side)? Of course you can cram hundreds of users in that channel when they all fall off within a short range of each other. In the case of 802.11, they are frequency hopping technologies with many discreet frequencies in the hopset. Kinda hard to do this on 8 UHF channels, don't you think??
You clearly do not know how CDMA cellular operated. It was not a system that was designed to be interfered with. For it to properly work the infrastructure had to control the MRs TXPO so that they all arrived at the same RSSI at the base station. If a subscriber came in too high in RSSI, it would interfere with the rest of the subscribers and was booted off of the site. As a tech back in the day, I could be standing at the tower but my phone was being steered to an adjacent tower so it would not overpower the delicate receivers that expected everyone at the same level. This clearly does not occur on narrow FM on UHF. All of the inbound signals coming in together at the same RSSI with a different psudo-random code is not interference, it is a carefully balanced and properly operating system. This is what the engineers at qualcomm developed. I also do not know of any US cellular systems that still use CDMA. They have all moved on to LTE or NR, both are TDMA based systems. The only CDMA system that may be on the air was one of the sat phone guys, but I am not sure if they are still around. Technology has marched on to better frequency sharing systems.
How are ANY of your arguments applicable to an analog, 25 khz bandwidth frequency modulated wide area repeater system with only 8 frequencies? What does Tetra, WiFi, LTE or NR for that matter have anything to do with GMRS? A better comparison would have been IMTS, which had the same challenges GMRS is facing, except not anyone could just throw up a system that hogged all of the available pairs for an entire city the size of Houston.
You clearly do not understand the differences in RF between multichannel wideband microwave based systems and narrowband FM 8 channel ones.
Also at the end of the day, it does not matter what fancy digital schema you use, ALL RF is analog in nature. Physics is physics.