Bill, take the word of experience, there is no such thing as a legal CB station. The rules are such there is NO WAY you can operate as CBers normally and I repeat NORMALLY do without breaking one or more. Read them carefully to see how many you break each time you get on the air.
If the FCC wanted to and they don't they could monitor and inspect your station and send you a cease and desist order in a heartbeat, I've seen it happen and was personally assisting them in an inspection which resulted in such an order. It was a technical fault in the transmitter resulting in severe TV interference. The operator solved the problem by replacing the faulty rig, was reinspected for conformance and given a clean bill of health. BTW, I taught the field engineer in charge how to use his brand new spectrum analyzer. (;->)
OK, the bottom line is if you cause interference to your own TV and you have a similar setup (air or cable) as your neighbor, Houston, we have a problem. Try using a different rig and see what happens, if at first you don't succeed try try again. In other words you might go through several crappy rigs until you find a clean one, there's a lot of junk out there.
On the other hand if you're clean chances are something on his end is at fault. Whatever you do, DO NOT blame the neighbor's equipment, he'll resent it and you've made an enemy! Run tests, work with your neighbor to resolve the problem. The ARRL publishes invaluable information on TVI/RFI so avail yourself of it. If you need help your best bet is your local Amateur Radio club, if they don't have an interference committee they can always send you in the right direction. Avail yourself of their knowledge and experience.
You won't get what you need here, we can write a book but we can't fix it by remote control. What you need is hands on so go out and get some hands.
Skip, I wouldn't worry about it unless I had a problem with the landing wheels knocking the top off my chimney. (;->) BTW, the rule used to read "more than 20' above the highest point of the existing structure" so when was that changed? I had mine on a 40' mast bracketed to the side of the ranch house that had a 16' roof peak. 20', what a laugh when the antenna itself is 18'.