As
@redbeard already told you, even public version of DSD has its own RTL tuner. It is called FMP. Why to use it over SDR#? Again, take a look at what
@redbeard said. And don't worry, it also has a spectrum
I am not familiar with this plugin but it seems that default command that passes to DSD is to use TCP.
I assume you are located in Europe, so ham band limits there are 144-146 for VHF band and 430-440 for UFH band. For the sake of simplicity we will not discuss other bands. If you want to tune to them it is a whole new level and DSD won't help you or those bands
OK, enough talking let's get to bussiness. I created the most basic startup file so it will use FMP, TCP connection, it will decode all types of digital modes. There is only few things you have to edit to be more precise. Change the extension from .txt to .bat and place it inside your DSDPlus folder. Open it with any text editor and only edit the numbers of the following switches according to the instructions:
-i1 -> this is the number of the RTL-SDR dongle. If you only have 1, leave it unchanged. Otherwise, set it to the one you want to use.
-f144.550 ->this is the startup frequency, you can change it to a desired one or you can leave it and change it once FMP is started
-o20001 -> that's the TCP port which will be used for connection between DSDPlus and FMP. Don't change it
-b9 -> that's the bandwidth. It could be different according to the type of transmission. For now leave it like that. 9 is a good starting point. If needed, change it by pressing b on your keyboard once FMP is started.
-g28.0 -> that is the gain. It defines how much of a signal "amplification" is used. Too low and signals go away, too strong and you will overload your receiver. 28 is good starting point, closer to the high end. Once FMP is started you can change it by pressing g or G on your keyboard to get it lower or higher.
-P45 -> that's the PPM correction. It defines by how much the receiver should be offset in order to be precise when tuning. That's receiver dependent but most of the rtl-sdr dongles are within 30 to 55. Start it this way and let your receiver get warm (10 min of work is enough) then use p or P on your keyboard to set lower or higher PPM offset. Once you found your sweet spot edit this and don't change it.
That's all for now! Hope I don't miss or mess anything

Good luck and happy decoding