Sounds like you should start by getting correct items with correct connectors to connect antenna/wire to the dongle. Just jamming it in there is not the answer.
What loop are you using and what connector is on that?
Did you buy the Balun yet? You would need a SMA Male to SMA Male to connect that to the dongle.
Also as mentioned, lower the gain. Maxed gain is not the answer either and will only complicate things. You will not see distant signals with the noise floor that high.
No I havent bought anything yet, im trying to see what I can do nbefore buying anything. As for the gain, I dont use it as high anymore. The loop antenna doesn't provide any reception with all tests I did, so Its quite pointless, if you look up AM loop antenna its the first one that pops up.