Thanx...excellent education.
So a radio that operated on the GMRS frequencies is what I should be looking at....
Well, if merely operating an appliance with little to no concern as to how and why it works, that might be a better option. But if you actually have an interest in the art and science of radio, and wish to be able to actually use it to it's full potential, then go get your ham license and enjoy it.
Ham radio can do what you want it to do, and do it quite well. But in order to get that level of performance, it simply can't be something left in a box until SHTF. Expecting it to suddenly just work is not reasonable.
...and yes my fiancé will be getting her technician license as well.
Perfect. If she's willing to actually do that for you, she's a keeper!