I really appreciate you explaining this all to me thank you.
So, one other thing I'd add about the THT 9800d plus
Before you spend money on that radio, understand the capabilities and licensing requirements.
For amateur radio, you need an FCC issued amateur radio license.
For GMRS, you need an FCC issued GMRS license.
This radio is not legal for use under FRS rules, under any circumstances.
Since this radio has no FCC type acceptance for anything other than "scanning receiver", it cannot be legally used to transmit outside the amateur radio bands. While 'hacking' the radio open is possible, it will not get around the type acceptance requirements.
Amateur radio license does not give any permissions on GMRS at all, under any circumstances.
GMRS radio license does not give any permissions on the amateur radio bands at all, under any circumstances.
As for the amateur radio side, unless you have a general class license, you cannot use the 10 meter capability of the 9800. The FM portion of the 10 meter band is not available for use by those with technician level licenses. So spending money on a radio that covers that band is pointless unless you have, or plan to get, the appropriate grade license. 6 meters is fine, but don't expect much traffic, and expect even less (if any) with a compromise antenna system.
The antenna challenges are real. Trying to cover 10m, 6m, 2m, 70cm and GMRS with a single antenna is going to result in disappointment.
You might want to look at a dual band amateur radio for your amateur radio use. Then add a dedicated GMRS radio for GMRS use. Use correct/separate antennas for both radios, and you'll get better performance/less headaches/less disappointment.
But, you do you. It's your choice. Just hate to see someone spend a lot of money trying to make the wrong equipment work.