EDIT---many useful comments came in while I was typing this post so forgive the somewhat terse parts of this post below. Going 2 month's without a haircut can apparently mess with my attitude......
All help is appreciated and will be put to use.
My question was technical not political so I didn't think I'd waste everybody's time with a back story. I was hoping for a technical answer on exactly if and how I could accomplish my goals with minimal degradation. I figured there might be people on the forum who had done something similar with the same equipment. Many years ago I remember a system that was NOT sharing an antenna but was configured so that both transmitters would not come up at the same time. I want that with the added challenge of same antenna. Simultaneous operation would be nice but expensive, power hungry, lossy and did I say expensive?
So, now I guess I need to take the "I'm I a dumb-ass" quiz portion of the posting requirements:
--Both repeaters are UHF DMR xpr8400's but they could be upgraded to newer models.
--one is 441.8625/446.8625 with 4 cavity duplexer, preamp, and moto preselector. The other could be on any of 7 frequencies in the range of 460.xxxx/465.xxxx and the outbound gear not yet purchased (preselector if needed, preamp, duplexer).
--Site is 400' with 7/8" hardline and 8 bay antenna.
--At this point public safety is the SECONDARY user in that it is a test platform for Fire/Rescue Task Force (part of our statewide taskforce which deploys all over the US and Puerto Rico). They are exploring DMR and various equipment manufacturers for some of their unique requirements. Their PRIMARY radio systems are the countywide and the Statewide Trunked systems. So no, they do not need preemption but it would be nice to have and possibly the ham side might preempt the PS side under some circumstances.
--The amateur side is primarily used by AUXCOMM groups, which are a creation of DHS and are NIMS/ICS trained and certified group. Their role continues to evolve but in basic terms is a bridge between amateur and public safety and can if asked fill any of the ps communications slots (dispatcher, COML, COMT, IT, HF ALE & Winlink, air & maritime ops etc). Through agreements and MOU's most of the AUXCOMM people can and do operate on PS frequencies and equipment, including SHARES and other Federal. So, in this particular case the majority of amateurs using the amateur repeater can and will also use the public safety repeater and since most of the TF (paid professional fire/rescue) people in my county are also licensed amateurs they can and will use the amateur repeater as well. In the future there may be a patch from the DMR PS repeater to the statewide trunked system allowing AUXCOMM people to get into system without buying or being issued APX8000's.
So, do I now qualify for advice on my technical issues? If so my snarkyness would transform into pure gratitude!