If you want your own F-16, buy an acre of land in AZ, you will get one eventually. If you would rather have a Harrier, buy in North Carolina....the -22 and -35 will be no different. Civil or military, Intolerance of mistakes is part of the game you must accept if you want to play. When I began my flying career I was told to expect to lose a friend every two years. Luckily it has not been quite that bad, but I have still seen enough friends killed to be reminded of what a check airman once told me: "No matter how much you love flying, the b1tch dont love ya back".....