But I’m a little bit confused; if my antenna was in fact one of those that required a ground plane and if an 18 foot coax is too long then how do you know how much cable you need to use?
The 5/8th's wave antenna you have requires a ground
plane. It's important to understand the difference between an RF ground plane and simply connecting the antenna mount to a grounded mirror support. DC ground, as in what you'd get through the mirror (-maybe-) is different than a flat ground plane under the antenna. A 5/8th's wave antenna requires a flat ground plane under the antenna, as in mounting it in the center of the steel or aluminum roof of a vehicle.
If your antenna is mounted on a mirror bracket, then it's never going to tune up correctly. The 18 feet of coax you have is just hiding the high SWR from the radio. In other words, you have a setup that looks good to the radio, but it's not working to it's full potential.
For local communications, like at a yard, you don't need to go overboard, but you do probably want this setup to work as well as you possibly can. In other words, get your monies worth out of the system.
You probably need to look at a 1/2 wave "No ground plane" antenna to go on your mirror mount. You'll also need the correct coaxial cable setup to provide the counterpoise for the antenna. A call to Firestik might be the easiest way to get what you need.
The other option is to mount the antenna dead center on the roof of the truck. That'll work only if the roof is a conductive metal, and there's no mechanical interference from the dump body. You could use a different style antenna and get some good performance.
But probably best/easiest to work with the mount you have, add a new no ground plane antenna and appropriate coax.
i’ve just got a cheap little $25 Astatic SWR meter that I guess works pretty good but that’s one of the things that’s always made me wonder is, even if your external SWR meter is pretty accurate and even the meter that’s built into the radio was pretty accurate, how would you really get the same SWR readings between the two because when you use the external one, you’ve now got a separate component for the signal to travel through and depending on how long your short piece of coax is that goes between the radio and the meter, you’ve added an extra length temporarily to your coax. I don’t know, I guess that doesn’t matter and I could be just speaking from lack of experience and lack of knowledge but I’ve just always wondered about that.
No, that's a good point, but the short length of coax between the SWR meter and the radio isn't going to impact things that much. The SWR meter is looking at reflected power at that point in the cable.
It's not a lab quality device, it's more of a simple/inexpensive sanity check to make sure the radios internal SWR meter is not lying to you. But, if the radios built in meter is matching pretty close to the external meter, then you're probably good.