Ham operators are the most double standard type of people you will ever meet, and NOTHING will ever make them happy.
They will complain and raise hell over a single beep on your radio, throw their mic at the wall in disgust and turn on their HF radio, to spend hours on CW listening to beeps.
They are the same people who hate all the noise, but will listen to static for hours.
They hate tones on their radios, but know all the fire dept pager tones by ear.
Many times I have heard someone talking on the repeater and pause for only 1 second and the other station keys up and starts talking. Then you have a mess of garbled sounds as they both try to talk at the same time. That is why repeaters use courtesy tones, to know when the other person un-keys.
Courtesy tones can be nice, but too many can get annoying. If you have ever listened to FRS radios for more than 10 min, you will understand, but a 1 or 2, low volume beeps arent too bad.
(Yes I am a HAM)